With 25 years behind my belt in the adult industry i found a lot of people telling me it was getting boring and mundane in the bedroom the spark and excitement disappearing  and what would i recommend  my answer is always the same  more foreplay less the fucking roll over without a thank you and in so doing this i always tell them to add a very simple item A BLINDFOLD reason being is you need to open their senses

it's the not knowing are you going to massage, lick, kiss, bite, slap,pinch or even more 

or maybe even adding HANDCUFFS and a simple FEATHER  to tease and titillate and now with your senses open and bound with this slight restriction you feel ever touch

Hear every breath sense every movement your mind is in a new exciting fear mode relax let it happen trust your partner  




Now your at a new stage in your life found that excitement and trust again with your partner and like a drug your wanting your fix again as it was so good all that teasing , massage kissing and even biting of nipples and slaps on the bottom al whilst Blindfolded now it's time to add a bit more excitement how about adding a BEGINNERS BONDAGE KIT  normally consisting of a BALL GAG LEAD AND COLLAR, HAND AND LEG CUFF'S, BONDAGE ROPE and even NIPPEL CLAMPS, dont be afraid to try new items relax enjoy and trust is the secret along with a lot of naughty dirty talk and whispers yes im actually advising you to go against the norm open your mind to new things




Now for those of you that want to take it further in the realm of  FETISH S&M 

Are you the submissive slave , master or mistress  or is it a role reversal relationship trying both ? only you both can decide but one thing is for certain you have started to google and troll fetish sites to discover and learn and even started to purchase new items  like WORTENBERY SPIKED WHEEL and possible more items for mild or sever torture such as electro stims sending mild electro shock to tease the body nerves  but one very important factor when you have reached this stage is to create a safe word  a code for stop so as not to endanger one, try some denial maybe CHASTITY for her or COCK CAGE for him make them earn their rewards beg for release




Congratulation's your now either a master or a slave  and in all probability know more about it then me at this stage  but i hope my simple basic guide was a help in your new found excitement just remember to open your mind to all new things and ideas and your senses and excitement will always be there